俘获家庭的“陷阱”?——数字育儿装置的意义协商、逃脱与破坏

陈俊睿, 李红涛, 连一格

国际新闻界 ›› 2025, Vol. 47 ›› Issue (11) : 71-92.

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俘获家庭的“陷阱”?——数字育儿装置的意义协商、逃脱与破坏

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Digital Parenting Devices: A Trap for Families? Negotiation, Resistance and Disruption

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进入家庭、楔入亲子关系的数字育儿装置,看似是孩子的电子护身符,却可能变成危机四伏的陷阱。本文以儿童智能手表为研究对象,通过对28名父母和孩子的深度访谈,从孩子、父母与技术公司三方之间动态协商的视角出发,探讨育儿装置在抚育实践中遭到的整合、改造和拒绝。研究发现,亲子双方通过协商达成了对育儿装置技术意义的“暂时性缝合”,并将之纳入家庭生活。但经由不断地优化升级,儿童智能手表逐渐成为一种俘获家庭的潜在陷阱。在持续与之拉锯的过程中,孩子逐步建构起对技术运行原理和家长管控策略的认知,发展出应对与抵抗策略,甚至通过弃用或者与技术厂商展开盗猎游戏,逃脱乃至破坏陷阱,由之中介的媒介化抚育就此走向中断或脱轨。

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Digital parenting devices, which are increasingly embedded in family settings and parent-child relationships, often function as electronic safeguards for children but can inadvertently become potential traps. This paper examines children’s smartwatches through in-depth interviews with 28 parents and children, analyzing how such devices are integrated, adapted, and at times rejected in everyday caregiving practices. Centering on the ongoing negotiations among children, parents, and technology companies, this study finds that families achieve only a provisional suturing of the digital parenting devices’ meaning, allowing their incorporation into family routines. However, as ongoing product optimizations and feature upgrades unfold, smartwatches steadily evolve into trap technologies. Amid this continuous technological tug-of-war, children acquire intricate knowledge of device operations and parental controls, develop sophisticated coping and resistance strategies, and ultimately devise methods to escape or subvert these traps - whether by discontinuing use or by engaging in “poaching games” with the developers. As a result, the promise of mediatized parenting afforded by children’s smartwatch is frequently interrupted or thrown off course.

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媒介化抚育 / 数字育儿装置 / 陷阱 / 协商 / 驯化

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Mediatized parenting / digital parenting devices / trap / negotiation / domestication

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陈俊睿, 李红涛, 连一格. 俘获家庭的“陷阱”?——数字育儿装置的意义协商、逃脱与破坏[J]. 国际新闻界. 2025, 47(11): 71-92
CHEN Junrui, LI Hongtao, LIAN Yige. Digital Parenting Devices: A Trap for Families? Negotiation, Resistance and Disruption[J]. Chinese Journal of Journalism & Communication. 2025, 47(11): 71-92

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注释 [Notes]

1. 化名。为保护受访者尤其是未成年人的隐私,本文提到的受访者均为化名。

2. ADB 提供了一个与手表底层系统交互的通道,用户可以借此对手表进行个性化定制。


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